5 Virtual Date Ideas During Quarantine Time

Just when we thought cuffing season was coming to a close, a pandemic set in threatening to forever halt the hopes of finding love over 40 Million singles in the US. The COVID-19 brought shock and panic in almost every form and none more threatening that in dating. In practicing social distancing many singles grappled with how to still make connection NOW more than ever before and stay safe. Cue the virtual date! As many online apps scrambled to not have this crisis cut off their business. As a result virtual dating is now become a thing even while many people struggle with the idea of conventional dating. Below find The Love Engineer’s definition of virtual dating as well as 5 really fun virtual dates that you can go on during this quarantine and have a great time.

What is a virtual date?

A virtual date is a way to connect and get to know a potential partner using technology that enables both people to see and interact with each other due to being unable to physically be in the same space.

In order to have the best virtual dates possible treat it as an actual date. You want your appearance to communicate care and interest. As in you CARE about your appearance and you are INTERESTED in learning more about your date. Just remember to be comfortable. The virtual dates you could have are only limited to your imagination and the strength of your WIFI connection. So do make sure you have a great signal and go have fun…virtually

Here are 5 easy yet fun Virtual Date Ideas

1. Grab a Drink - This tried and true version of connection works well virtually. You pour a glass of your favorite beverage and your partner does the same. Turn on a camera and sip and share.

2. Go for a walk - Pick a place outside maybe a park or even around the block and throw on some comfy shoes and go walking while you both take a journey with your cameras on. You can point out interesting things you see on your walk and your partner can do the same.

3. Play Games - I say all the time if you really want to get to know someone, play a game with them. Virtual games like getting to know you bingo, or pictionary or conversation games like The War on Love, allows you add in fun and keep it light.

4. Share a Meal- Select an easy recipe (15-20 mins) like tacos and both of you get the ingredients and turn on your camera and make it together, or just eat a meal separately prepared. Gives you a chance to understand do they enjoy cooking, have they ever taken a cooking class and more.

5. Do a virtual tour - Many art galleries, zoos and several places are offering virtual tours. Select one to check out together and discuss what you learned or liked about it and so much more.

Virtual dating though a relatively new concept may be something the lingers long after the quarantine is over and we are able to return to fancy restaurants and festivals again. The benefits are plenty. It doesn’t replace the need or desire for physical connection. Yet upfront, it offers a safe, inexpensive way to truly get to experience the vibes and energy of another person before committing to spend a larger amount of time together. It takes less coordination than a coffee date and yet can create foundation that can be just as strong.

What are some other virtual date ideas you would add?

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The Photograph - Picture Perfect The LOVE Engineer Review

This Valentine’s weekend was made more perfect by the release of a true LOVE STORY!! The hot and talented lovers  Issa Rae and LaKeith Stanfield gave Cupid that help he has desperately been needed to have people believe in LOVE again. It centers on a love story between two wrapped up by at least 2 other love stories that make the one LOVE possible. LaKeith Stanfield is Mike, a New York journalist working for The Republic, an online publication that give him the freedom, resources and support he needs to meander his way through stories until his writer’s soul is content. Issa Rae is Mae, a curator at the Queens Museum who’s still reeling from her mother’s death from cancer, unpacking her mother’s past which was signed sealed and discovered. It was in search of the story that the two would end up on their first date. After the awkwardness that first dates usually bring they talk music — not jazz, though I have to believe Dizzy Gillepsie and Theolonius Monk are somewhere beaming with pride that Robert Glasper infused jazz throughout this movie. Though no rap is found in the movie it was the discussion point that would ignite a friendly banter with a strong enough connection to make the relationship spark. He jams to Kendrick Lamar, she is a Drake fan and admits that it’s not Kendrick’s music she doesn’t like yet it’s the bar his lyrics set.

The Photograph was like a piece of dark chocolate on a Sunday afternoon. It was the exact opposite of the typical Love Story portrayed on the big screen for Black Women.  It was calm, not overly dramatic and didn’t set pain, struggle or the typical “fight for love” narrative as the standard for BLACK LOVE. It was not tragic, nor was it set up on a foundation of panic and fear of sudden loss. In this movie LOVE was a gift not a reward!

Mike & Mae’s date would be the vehicle that would take us on a journey into the intricacies and the impact on relationships with love lost, love feared, love desired and steady love all side by side.  Funny, this is how LOVE and relationships unfolds in real life.  The movie captured the everyday decisions, choices and challenges that that are made that can make or break love connections and the potential impact that it will have for generations to come. 

Suprisingly it offered up the tension and made you appreciate what ambitious women in the 20th Century had to contend with when presented with the option to go for your dreams or go for love. Just a generation ago it was a very hard choice, and be clear you had to choose.   Yet in the 21st Century the choice is no less difficult but now the option of BOTH is visible for Powerhouse Women. It will take a little bit of work,  a whole lot of faith and the willingness to be vulnerable yet you can have LOVE and a great LOVER to share it with.

The movie requires a lot from the audience. First you have to recalibrate your expectations of a love story, you need to identify the climax that is most powerful for you. As the movie provides a variety of Love Stages that the audience can either identify with or dismiss as interesting.  Depending on where one is in their own love journey they will either like or loathe the film.  It offers no answers yet it reveals what you believe is realistic, possible or even relevant when it comes to LOVE. 

What does a picture perfect LOVE look like for YOU?

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